Dating coaches Scot McKay and Emily Grillo, deliver their unique perspectives on dating, using examples and anecdotes to get their message across.


X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast LISTEN: 289-466-5002
***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating advice podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.

Episode 38--X & Y On The Fly--Who Wears The Pants?
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
2 Jul 2008 at 8:29pm
Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 37--X & Y On The Fly--Dating Differences When You're Younger Vs. Older
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
26 Apr 2008 at 12:27pm
It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 36--X & Y On The Fly--How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
25 Mar 2008 at 2:29am
OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 35--X & Y On The Fly--Get Over It: How To Fall Out Of Love
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
29 Jan 2008 at 10:05pm
Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 34--X & Y On The Fly--How To Understand The Opposite Sex
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
3 Dec 2007 at 3:47pm
Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 33--X & Y On The Fly--Who's Got It Harder In The Dating World, Men Or...
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
29 Oct 2007 at 12:32am
Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 32--X & Y On The Fly--An Unsettling Discussion About Settling
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
12 Sep 2007 at 6:18am
Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 31--X & Y On The Fly--"I'm Just Not Feeling It Anymore"
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
7 Aug 2007 at 2:40pm
Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 30--X & Y On The Fly--What Does A 'Happy Relationship' Look Like?
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
10 Jul 2007 at 5:43pm
Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that ? Emily and Scot look at the big... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 29--X & Y On The Fly--You've Attracted One...Now What?
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
19 Jun 2007 at 12:54am
Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 28--X & Y On The Fly--The War Of The Roses
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
28 May 2007 at 5:37am
Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 27--X & Y On The Fly--Pickup And Seduction
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
4 May 2007 at 11:12am
Special Guests Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/thundercat)plus AJ and Jordon from PickupPodcast.com. The terms "pickup" and "seduction" mean different things to different... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 26--X & Y On The Fly--The Essence Of Femininity
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
18 Apr 2007 at 5:01am
Special Guest Amy Waterman from 000Relationships (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/amy). Back in Episode 23 Scot and Emily covered Masculinity. But...ahhhh...they've truly saved the best for later. This... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 25--X & Y On The Fly--A Personal Conversation About Online Dating
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
25 Mar 2007 at 6:54pm
Special Guest Grant Adams from Net2Bed/Net2Wed (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/grant). What has taken so long for THIS episode to happen? After all, Emily and Scot met on Match.com and have... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".
Episode 24--X & Y On The Fly--Kiss Me Correctly And Kiss Me Often
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
6 Mar 2007 at 5:46am
NEW ENHANCED SOUND QUALITY! Special Guests Michelle Penney from Kissing 101 (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/kissing)and Janet Morehead from Mojo-Maker.com. The two hosts of this podcast have each long... Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".