Dating coaches Scot McKay and Emily Grillo, deliver their unique perspectives on dating, using examples and anecdotes to get their message across.


X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast LISTEN: 289-466-5002
***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . If you like the podcasts you'll love our newsletter. You can also find us on Facebook at . We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at +1-210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past four years.

Episode 46--X & Y On The Fly--Is A Great Relationship Really A Lot Of 'Work'?
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
16 May 2011 at 10:48pm
We've all heard the old, worn-out cliche time and again...'If you want a great relationship with your significant other, you're going to have to WORK ON IT every single day.' But do we take that at... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 45--X & Y On The Fly--Open Relationships
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
12 Feb 2011 at 5:34pm
Get ready for a no-holds-barred discussion on all sorts of non-monogamous relationships. Swingers and 'The Lifestyle'? The 'don't ask / don't tell' policy of the rich and famous? Bisexual trysts? ... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 44--X & Y On The Fly--Hey Jealousy
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
3 Aug 2010 at 3:46pm
Where are you? Who were you with? What's more annoying, having to ask questions like that or being on the receiving end of them? Well, in this episode, besides proving that the show is still in... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 43--X & Y On The Fly--You Can't Live With 'Em, And You Can't Shoot 'Em
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
25 Oct 2009 at 3:32pm
Let's face it, whether you're a man or a woman there are things about the opposite gender that tend to drive you nuts. Why do they do all that annoying stuff? Well, in this episode you'll get... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 42--X & Y On The Fly--First Dates That Lead To Second Dates
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
2 Jun 2009 at 12:04pm
Going on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for someone of either gender. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as Scot and Emily talk about simple ways to prepare for first dates, make... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 41--X & Y On The Fly--Movie Moments
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
28 Jan 2009 at 12:35pm
What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 40--X & Y On The Fly--When Kids Are In The Picture
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
11 Nov 2008 at 3:58am
Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 39--X & Y On The Fly--Dealing With Exes...As Opposed To Taking Them Back
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
1 Sep 2008 at 7:59pm
Should you really try to get your ex back after a breakup? The answer: It depends. You're about to find out what it depends exactly. Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 38--X & Y On The Fly--Who Wears The Pants?
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
2 Jul 2008 at 7:29pm
Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 37--X & Y On The Fly--Dating Differences When You're Younger Vs. Older
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
26 Apr 2008 at 11:27am
It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 36--X & Y On The Fly--How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
25 Mar 2008 at 1:29am
OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 35--X & Y On The Fly--Get Over It: How To Fall Out Of Love
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
29 Jan 2008 at 9:05pm
Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 34--X & Y On The Fly--How To Understand The Opposite Sex
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
3 Dec 2007 at 2:47pm
Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 33--X & Y On The Fly--Who's Got It Harder In The Dating World, Men Or...
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
28 Oct 2007 at 11:32pm
Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.
Episode 32--X & Y On The Fly--An Unsettling Discussion About Settling
by info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)
12 Sep 2007 at 5:18am
Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this... Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.