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Episode 38--The Chick Whisperer--Quit Making Everything So Complicated
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
15 May 2010 at 8:34pm
Co-Host Brad Howard (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/adonis) Based on the type of e-mails we get, I can tell you that most guys are straight-up making the process of approaching and meeting women WAY more complicated than it has to be. Most of us over-analyze even the idea of approaching a woman to a fault, and assuming we ever dig ourselves out from under that we then rely on a massive system of rules, sequences and 'if/then' strategies that end up just derailing us instead of helping us reach our goals. Well, here's the simple truth: Approaching and meeting women doesn't have to be NEARLY as complicated as you think. Brad and I show...
Episode 37--The Chick Whisperer--MILFs And Cougars
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
21 Mar 2010 at 6:26am
Co-Host Brad Jackson (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/jackson) What inspired this show? You and your e-mails did, that's what. Besides, any man who's been around the block knows all too well that there's way, WAY more to life than 21-year-old hotties. Single moms and older women can seriously have it going on, and in this episode you're going to learn expert secrets on how to attract those women make them respond powerfully to you. Admit it...you know you've been wanting to learn this stuff for ages. Finally, you've got two guys who have the first-hand experience in this department throwing everything out on the table that you need t...
Episode 36--The Chick Whisperer--Live An Inspired Life And Women Will Love Yo...
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
8 Feb 2010 at 5:35am
Co-Host Adam Gilad (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/adam) We've all heard time and again about how women want a man who lives an exciting life. Even more, they are insanely attracted to guys who can impart some of that excitement to THEIR lives also. Enter Adam Gilad. Adam, who you may also know as Grant Adams, has been igniting femininity rampantly all over the world for years now...and it's all because he has become a man who's life is nothing short of, well...inspired. Discover exactly what that really means as Adam and I share strategies and stories that will leave you nothing short of psyched to go out and live the dream for your...
Episode 35--The Chick Whisperer--Getting Women To Approach You
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
23 Nov 2009 at 7:55pm
Co-Host John Alanis (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/john) Who else but 'The King Of Let 'Em Come To You' should be my co-host for this episode? That's right...join me for this RARE (and certifiably rambunctious) audio conversation with John Alanis on how to actually get women to approach YOU first. Sound crazy? I know it did to me. After all, we talk about the importance of growing a pair and getting over 'approach anxiety' all day long about here. So what gives with all this talk about getting women to do all the 'heavy lifting'? Well, I hope you're sitting down for this but as it turns out John and I are on the SAME PAGE...completely. ...
Episode 34--The Chick Whisperer--Is Marriage For Chumps?
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
5 Nov 2009 at 8:31pm
Co-Host Adam Lyons (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/adam) We're joined by none other than Adam Lyons for an upfront discussion on marriage--all from the perspective of two guys who are both happily married AND professional dating coaches. No question is off the table as we talk about monogamy vs. open relationships, the right and wrong reasons to get married, why dating more women now means a stronger marriage later, and more. Pay particularly close attention when Adam gives you step-by-step details on how he went from AFC to living the good life with his favorite woman ever. And YES...whether you're thinking it's time to find a wife or y...
Episode 33--The Chick Whisperer--Are Women Really So Hard To Figure Out?
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
31 Dec 1969 at 7:00pm
Co-Host Marni Kinrys (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/wing) On the occasion of the long-awaited launch of Chick Whispering, the book (and now complete program) inspired by this podcast, I invited none other than Wing Girl extraordinaire Marni Kinrys to join me for what may be the definitive Chick Whispering discussion, superseding all others. Listen in as Marni talks about some absolutely primo ways to figure out what's on a woman's mind--quickly and easily. We also delve into some of the deeper issues as to why so many people prefer to flat-out give up on MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) rather giving a fair shot to figuring them o...
Episode 32--The Chick Whisperer--How To Choose The Right Woman
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
10 Aug 2009 at 7:38pm
Co-Host David Shade (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/shade) Take it from two guys who've been there before and have the scars to prove it. Making the RIGHT DECISION when it comes to which woman to invite into your life for a long-term relationship is not just mission-critical, it could literally make or break your ENTIRE LIFE. Join my co-host David Shade and I as we talk about what exactly to look for in a woman in order to evaluate her LTR potential. And just for good measure, we also tackle a great e-mail from a listener who is considering making a 'friend with benefits' into his steady girlfriend. If you haven't taken a look at w...
Episode 31--The Chick Whisperer--Supernatural Connection With Women
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
16 Jul 2009 at 2:07pm
Co-Host Bryan Bayer (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/amp) Sure, most of as guys all want to build rapport with a woman and experience a genuinely deep connection with her. But have you ever stopped to consider that there could be a level of connecting with women that FAR exceeds what you've ever even imagined was possible? Join me along with my co-host Bryan Bayer from AMP as we share some truly crazy thoughts and wild stories--all in the name of empowering YOU to 'hyper-natural' relationships with the greatest women on Earth. While we're at it, we respond to Chad in Pittsburgh's voicemail question about how to relate to women from As...
Episode 30--The Chick Whisperer--Women Are NOT The Enemy...Make Them Your All...
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
24 Jun 2009 at 6:10pm
Co-Host Nick Sparks (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/unbreakable) It's easy to lapse into an 'us versus them' mentality when it comes to women, especially when one's focus is off. Join Nick Sparks and I as we talk about how to get what you want from women WITHOUT feeling like you have to win a game of 'keep away' to do so. Prepare for some surprising insights that are flat-out unheard of in the Seduction Community, but which have been field tested with great success. Gentlemen, this episode is ALL ABOUT how to enjoy FAR GREATER satisfaction in your relationships women than you've ever dreamed possible...WAY, WAY beyond sex alone. If ...
Episode 29--The Chick Whisperer--What If 'Be Yourself' Was GOOD ADVICE, For A...
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
23 Apr 2009 at 3:35pm
Co-Host Alan Roger Currie (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/modeone) How many times have you ever been given the advice to just 'be yourself' in order to attract more women? Yeah well, what if 'be yourself' ISN'T WORKING? You know how it goes, 'keep doing what you've always done and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten.' Listen in to this very special episode Alan Roger Currie (aka Mode One) and I break down exactly how to take back your birthright as a REAL MAN and portray the 100% authentic version of your best self. Fair warning, though...get ready for some seriously straight talk on this matter. For the complete toolkit on b...
Episode 28--The Chick Whisperer--Is She Interested In You?
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
2 Mar 2009 at 11:44pm
Co-Host Doc Love (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/doclove) OK, here's a 'pop quiz'. There's only one question, so this is 'pass/fail' all the way. What is THE most important factor when you're talking to a woman for the first time? Well, our co-host--the legendary Doc Love--says it's HER INTEREST LEVEL IN YOU. And guess what? According to Doc, that REMAINS the most important factor as long as you're in a relationship with her. And he may just be on to something here. After all, this guy has been at this dating and seduction advice stuff since 1964...that's 45 YEARS for those of you without a calculator handy. So get ready to kick...
Episode 27--The Chick Whisperer--Flirting And Creating Natural Attraction
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
31 Jan 2009 at 6:23pm
Co-Host Christian Hudson (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/social) Approaching women is one thing, but actually creating real attraction is another. And let me tell you, if there was ever a subject that confounds even the best of us at times, that's it. So how do you make a woman interested in you as more than "just friends"? And furthermore, how in the world do you get the job done without leaning on canned techniques like a crutch? Well, get ready to put this problem to bed once and for all as The Social Man's Christian Hudson and I work the issue from every angle, giving you practical tips on how to flirt effectively with women and...
Episode 26--The Chick Whisperer--The Dude Whisperer
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
23 Dec 2008 at 10:12am
Co-Host Mirabelle Summers (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/fireworks) OK, when I read the new book Fireworks With Females I thought it was pretty good. Then I figured out that a woman, namely Mirabelle Summers, wrote most of it. She's basically "The Dude Whisperer", based on what I've read. Naturally, that's when I got on the phone and invited Mirabelle to co-host a TCW episode with me. And it was as epic a conversation as I had expected, most definitely. Get ready to find out--for real--what women want, what women THINK men want, what they REALLY think about men approaching them, and even the truth about whether or not they're really ...
Bonus Episode--The Chick Whisperer--Stop Giving Your Power Away
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
21 Oct 2008 at 3:51am
(NOTE: Originally offered as a special bonus to newsletter subscribers last year, now published to the feed for the first time ever) Co-Host Brent Smith (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/brent) Are you sick of giving all of your power away to women? Has it gotten so bad that you're not even sure you KNOW what 'giving your power away to women' even MEANS? Well, if you have any trepidations as to whether you're really in complete control of your dating life or not, you've come to the right place. In this BONUS episode from "the vault", you're about to find the answers to every question you've ever had on the subject but were afraid to ...
Episode 25--The Chick Whisperer--Inner AND Outer Game
by scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay)
3 Oct 2008 at 12:32am
Co-Host Bart Baggett (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/bart) Keeping on with the theme of bringing you something completely different, it's my pleasure to welcome back Bart Baggett after being MIA from the Seduction Community for quite some time. Find out how handwriting analysis (Yes..HANDWRITING analysis) can not only be a great way to meet women, but also become a very real resource to you in evaluating the potential viability of long-term relationships. This is not palm reading or the Chinese horoscope...you've just got to listen in and discover this for yourself. Bring a pad and a paper along and put it all to the test. Best of a...